Saturday, January 20, 2018

My Life is Complete...I Have Been to Wall Drug

We vacated our motel room as quickly as possible the next day. We were in a fairly populated area, so we found a place to go to church first thing in the morning. Selfie in the car before we head inside.


Everyone was very welcoming. It was fast and testimony meeting and all the missionaries bore their testimonies. They are part of the sister mission that borders on the Minneapolis Mission (I believe). They were very excited for Sis. Cazier, although they told her she missed the best mission by just a few miles. We met a very nice man named Roy Mclaws. He has an extra house there and lets people stay when they are passing through. Wish we had known about that before the smoky room. But he is great at connecting people. Somehow I feel like I will run into him again someday.

When we were leaving, we looked up on the hill. Is that a bird? Is it a plane? Is it a...dinosaur??


Vicki felt like she was fighting a slight cold, so she took some cold medicine, which basically knocked her out. I was okay driving solo for a while. I had been seeing signs for Wall Drug for hundreds of miles. Vicki mentioned that it was well advertised and that they had stopped there before. The signs just kept coming as we got closer. Some were silly. Actually, most were silly. It is a thing though. There are signs for Wall Drug all over the world saying how many miles to Wall Drug. I found this picture on the internet with this sign from Amsterdam.


One blogger counted how many signs she saw on the way to Wall Drug. (I wish I had thought of that.) She counted 152. Wowza.

You'd better believe that we had to stop at Wall Drug. I felt bad waking Vicki up, but it seemed better than letting her sleep in the car.


Wall Drug was so fun. It is like a mall with dozens of shops, tons of souvenirs, a delicious restaurant, and a play area for kids. There were some specialty stores like book stores and gem stores. And several stores that just had tons of random stuff. We ate first. They had so many yummy choices. Every person that walked by with food, you wanted what they had. They have amazing donuts and we took some of those for the road. While shopping later, I found some of those invisible ink books from my childhood. I got one for each of the girls. They have such interesting things. Like this necklace tree.


I also saw this bead pig and took a picture for Robyn.


I got separated from Sis. Cazier for a while. The place is pretty big. It is easy to have happen. I sat down by this hound dog and we took a lonely picture.


I found the big T-Rex in the back. Every ten minutes or so, he wakes up and roars and moves. I wish the doors opened up too, but no luck there.


Since we were stretching our legs, we played in the play area for a bit. Just kidding, but Vicki did ride the Jackalope.


It was quite the adventure. I wanted a shirt for myself. It took me over 40 minutes to decide what I wanted. (Don't worry, we were there for two hours.) I finally got a little hoody. Now I can say that I have been to Wall Drug and I have the shirt to prove it. What else could I want in life?

The rest of the day was a lot of driving through South Dakota. Our destination that night was Sioux Falls. We got there in the evening. We decided to be smarter about our hotel this time. We found a place that had vacancies, still thanks to Tyler. Although he was in UT, he liked directing us through towns. When we went inside, they had plenty of no-smoking rooms. Huzzah. We got a room right near the front and as we walked in, it smelled funny. It wasn't smoke, but I couldn't quite place it. Mom knew though. She said, "That's pet." We had chosen a hotel that was pet friendly, but it smelled like maybe the last pet was a little too friendly.

We didn't want to make a fuss, but I decided that we had had plenty of ambiance for our nose the previous night. I told the front desk that I was allergic and we were quickly moved to a room where no pets had been. It was very nice. And I only had to be a little sneaky.


Sioux Falls is named for the waterfalls there. We went looking for them but it was so dark that although we could hear them, we certainly couldn't see them very well. We gave up and found some pretty architecture instead. Old churches and cathedrals are so amazing. (What is the difference between a church and a cathedral? I just looked it up. Cathedrals are bigger and run by a bishop. So just go up to the doors, knock, and ask if the bishop is in.)


Monday morning dawned and we decided to go visit the falls again with better light. Sadly, those muffins we got on Saturday night didn't make it. I guess that is what happens when you put them on the roof of the car and then drive off. Oops.

The Falls were lovely. A feast for the eyes, but not the nose. For some reason, it was super stinky. As if raw sewage were tumbling over the precipice instead of water. We held our breath and took pictures. There were some ruins around as well. I believe they were from the original mill that was built there but went out of business. The only thing there now is a restaurant, where hopefully you can view the falls but not smell them.





Back in the car, we were on our last leg of the trip. Minnesota, here we come! I took a last photo with the mirror that hung over my head the entire time I was driving. We really were wedged in that car.


The mission home is closer to Minneapolis, but Mom was going to be living in a smaller town called Byron. Byron is pretty tiny. But only fifteen minutes away is the thriving city of Rochester. That place is large with the Mayo Clinic and all the stores and amenities you could need.

There was some gap in the communication along the way. I always knew what our schedule would be, but somehow the mission office thought we wouldn't be there until Tuesday. They were planning for us to arrive a day later. And they planned to fly me back on Wed. I didn't really want to spend extra time in MN. Not because it wouldn't be cool to see stuff out there or hang out with Mom, but I was going to miss June's orchestra concert. When we showed up Monday afternoon, around the same time as Mom's companion, Sis. McPhie, they were a bit surprised. Sis. McPhie is very nice. She was already unpacking with her son, so we jumped right in and got Mom's car unloaded in no time. The apartment is very nice. Here are some of the rooms.




The missionaries had heard that Sis. Cazier and Sis. McPhie were arriving. They came to help but were just a few minutes late. No worries, it was still great to meet them all. Elders Calderwood and Ruson, Elders Loveland and Newell and Sisters Woodward and Lok. They were the district for that area. Sis. Woodward is from Vineyard, just a stone's throw away. I have been meaning to stop by and see her family, but it hasn't happened yet.


 After unpacking, we got some lunch. We checked out the small town of Byron. There isn't much going on, but luckily all the important stuff is right around the corner from their apartment. The gas station, and grocery store are right there. We tried out another bar of course, since I don't think Sis. McPhie will go their later. I took this picture because it made me laugh that the bugs were all huddled in the shade. Can you see them?


Lunch was amazing. The food was so good that I didn't even mind when Vicki knocked over her soda spilling it all over me. It was accompanied by her usual loud scream. It certainly got everyone's attention.


In the afternoon, we went into Rochester and hit up Bed, Bath and Beyond to redo Mom's bathroom. It is not a large bathroom. She has a sink squished in the corner. I'm not sure how she will ever do her hair over there. But after we were done, she had some very nice towels.


 I'm very excited for Mom. She has a nice place to live and already people that can take care of her and love her. Sis. McPhie is very nice. She is very different from Mom, but in good ways. They will compliment each other well. Mom can be a bit of a tornado (in good ways) and I think Peggy will be a calm voice in return. Now that they have been out there a while, they seems to be getting along. There have been some hiccups but that is normal for any companionship. Despite their differences, I think they are both united in the gospel. I slept on the couch that night and looked forward to a day of fun in MN, since I had an extra day to kill


Sadly, in other news, I found out that day that the Kelly's lost their house to wildfires in CA. It seemed so unreal. I got an email alert from a hotel in that area that they were evacuating. (I didn't even know there were fires at the time.) So I texted Jeannie to see how they were doing. She said, "Everyone is safe, but the house is gone." I was shocked. Everything happened so quickly. I'm so grateful they were safe, but my heart hurt for them. Turns out Ethan's school burned down as well. So much destruction, upheaval, and heartache all at once. I think the holidays were a very hard time for them. They spent time waiting for schools to figure out what to do with kids, and finding a new place to live. They have a place now, and Ethan is back in school, but I think they are still deciding what to do long term. Do they rebuild or find a new permanent home? Such hard choices. I sure love their family and this has been hard to watch. You wish only good things for your loved ones.

Tuesday, January 16, 2018

Washington, Roosevelt, Lincoln...and that other guy

When Vicki got her mission call back in August, she was told to report to the MTC right at the beginning of October. She came to see us on the General Conference Sunday (and drop off the Pipster) and then she was off to the MTC the next day.

Tyler took her over there and showed her the ropes. He has a picture just like this with other mission newbies standing by this sign and sticking out their feet. (Um...let me do some research on this. I'm not sure why that is a thing. Maybe they are showing off their shoes before they have holes in them from all the walking. Okay, Tyler just says it is to show off the cool socks you wore to the MTC. Um...should we tell Mom she forgot her socks?)


Interestingly, when I had talked to Mom much earlier, I had asked her who was taking her out to her mission. She needed her car and although she had already met her companion, they both needed a car so they had to drive separately. But they couldn't drive alone. She told me that Tyler was going to take her and I instantly knew that it should be me. Not sure why? I just knew. So I told her so. And luckily, she was fine with the idea.

Mom had only a few days in the MTC. Since she was speaking English, she didn't need too much training. She still had a few very exhausting days. One afternoon she came over to say Hi and fell asleep in our chair for an hour or so. Poor tired Grandma. Friday rolled around and it was time to go. She showed up in her packed stuffed car. Stuffed to the gills! I have never seen a car so crammed full of items. Opening the doors was scary because things would fall out. We impossibly managed to fit my luggage for the weekend somewhere in the car and then we said our goodbyes to all the ducks and we were headed to the North Star State. (Yep, I had to look that up.) I wish I had better pictures to portray this car filled to the max.




I had mapped out our trip. Grandma was happy to let me schedule things. She was just along for the ride. I only reserved a hotel for the first night. After that, we would have to find lodging where we stopped, although I had a good idea of where we would go. The first leg of our journey was very smooth. We went quite a ways into Wyoming and stopped in Rawlins. It was super windy. But that didn't matter. We had dinner at Mi Casita. Very tasty. Of course we checked in with Tyler so he knew we were safe and we sent him a photo.


It was a nice hotel and we slept well and got up right on time to be on our way. Saturday was a big day and I had some sightseeing plans for us. Who knew if I would ever drive this way again? I wanted to make the most of it. We stopped for snacks and hydration supplies and we were back on the road.


We had a pretty smooth system the whole time. I drove and we chatted or Vicki slept. I have always felt comfortable driving. I had my GPS, Pishaw. Vicki's car had its own navigation system. I quickly named her Kimber. Kimber had different views from Pishaw. Sometimes they didn't agree. It was a little strange, but we always figured out where we needed to go...eventually.

(Maybe I should call Mom, Sis. Cazier. She was an official missionary at this point, tag and all. I'll try to get it right.)

So we spent much of the day driving. We stopped for lunch and the only place we could find was a pub. We skipped the drinking obviously and the food was quite good.


We finally breached South Dakota. I had steered us so we could go to Mt. Rushmore. Once upon a time Tyler and I made plans to go see the monument, but that was when Vicki fell and got chemical burns on her arms while lying in the paint stripper. Now I was going to go see it after all, just with a different Cazier. As we neared the lovely trees and mountains that make up the famous area, we passed a sparkly wall. The light caught my eye and I turned the car around to go back. I'm glad I did. It seemed to be a marble like rock with layers of feldspar in it. Pieces and chunks had flaked off, so I gathered a few pieces for the kids.


Sis. Cazier had been to this area with her boys many years ago. So when we came in sight of Crazy Horse, she wasn't surprised. I was very startled to see this strange shaped mountain. Of course we went up for a closer look.


Crazy Horse is a very different monument than Mt. Rushmore even though they aren't very far apart. Rushmore was funded by the government and went up fairly quickly. Crazy Horse boasts that it has NEVER used government funds. The sculptor of Crazy Horse, Korczak Ziolkowski was approached by some Indians and asked to do the mountain sculpture of Crazy Horse. We went in and watched a video all about it. What you learn is a whole lot about the sculptor and basically nothing about Crazy Horse. The whole area is a monument about Korczak. It is still pretty cool. There are several large buildings. One is much like a museum with many native american objects. I believe the goal was eventually to make an entire campus/school dedicated to Native Americans, although probably with plenty of emphasis on Korczak. I loved this collection of beads they have. I have a weakness for things organized by color.


The nature gates outside were pretty cool too. I don't actually know what they are for. You didn't go through the gates at all. They were just there and you walked around them.


We toured around quite a bit. There is a wall showing the progress throughout the years. It has been a slow journey. Pretty much only the face and some of the arm is completed and the rest will take at least another fifty years. Most likely it will not be finished in my lifetime, unless they come up with some cool technology to help speed it up. This is what the finished product will look like.


They have drawn a rough sketch of the horse head on the mountain. Can you see it up there. They said those lines would be wider across than a person could reach.


We took the $3 bus tour to get a little closer. It was totally worth it. Now you can kind of see his face.


They told a lot of stories about the sculptor and his family. They had something like ten kids and all of them helped work on the mountain. In fact, besides the ones who had passed away, all of them live within 50 miles of the mountain and several of them run the business now. They told a story about a tractor that fell off the mountain when one of the boys was driving it. Luckily he got out just in time and only the tractor took the fall. Amazingly it still ran after, although it has since been retired.


Mom's digging the nice weather.


You can pay something like $100 or more to take the bus all the way up to the face. It looks something like this close up. (This is a picture inside the museum. We did not take the VIP tour.) I have to agree with the wife though. I think after Korczak died, she decided to focus on the face and finish it. It is pretty cool, and probably draws a lot of people. Good choice.


From Crazy Horse, it was on to Mt. Rushmore. It was really beautiful. Crazy Horse is right off the highway, but Rushmore is snuggled up in the mountains. It's a scenic drive and then suddenly you are there. I admit that I thought the faces would be bigger. But that was probably because I was warped by Crazy Horse. He is HUGE. All the faces of Mt. Rushmore could fit up where his hair will be carved. They are still majestic men.


The presidents are awesome. (Lincoln is my favorite.) I mistakenly thought Jefferson was Adams. (I didn't really know who that fourth guy up there was...ahem. Now I do.) The area is lovely and it wasn't over crowded the day we were there. Sis. Cazier said it has changed a lot since she last visited. She described lots of stairs, but we just had a smooth path that gradually ascended; not even steep. We took some pictures with these great presidents.





My head is way bigger than theirs.


We stayed until it got dark so we could see them lit up at night. It was pretty cool, although harder to take a picture. On the left here is the sculptor, Gutzon Borglum. Korczak studied under him.


When we left, there is an area where you can see a profile. We hadn't seen it on the way in, but we snuck a peak on the way out.


I bought some cool earrings at the gift shop. (Red/orange leaves.) It was a very fun, relaxing day. By evening, we were quite tired. A dinner at Perkins was filled with giggles as Vicki couldn't find the handle for the door. She just stared at the glass door in confusion. It was just a panel. The door was a little farther down. We were a little slap happy by then though. We got a box of delicious muffins to share in the morning.

There was quite a bit of hassle with the motel room. (Remind me to skip Motel 6.) We were going to go somewhere else but Tyler had reserved a room online while we were driving. We couldn't get out of it. They didn't have any non-smoking rooms, but they eventually found one with a single queen bed that we could share. We opted for that, but as soon as we entered the room, the strong smell of smoke hit us. It was too late to worry about that. We crashed. Sharing a bed with Vicki was fine, but man she SNORES! LOUDLY! I sometimes would wake up, but not often. I'm a pretty deep sleeper. I would call this day a resounding success. So fun to spend the time with Mom.

Friday, January 12, 2018

Book Review 2017

Right behind photo galleries, this might be my favorite post. Who doesn't want to read about the best books someone read in a given year. Okay, maybe there are a few people out there, but I don't know them, I'm sure.

Let's start with the fun statistics, thanks to Goodreads.

Books read this year: 42

Pages: 13,022

Shortest Book: You Know I Can't Hear You When the Water's Running - 68 pages

Longest Book: Way of Kings - 1007 pages

Average Length: 310 pages

Most Popular: Ready Player One (801,011 people read it.)

Highest Rating on Goodreads: Way of Kings

Most Read Month: June - 7 books

Least Read Month: July - 1 book

Two Stars (I don't recommend this book): Time Flies and Other Short Plays

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Ready for my top 9 favorites, in no particular order? (With pictures to follow) I'm using my reviews off Goodreads mostly. I'm saving myself time by not rewriting and I don't remember the books as well as I did then anyway. I only remember the feelings I have left over.

The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah - 4.5 This book was heart wrenching. About a hundred pages in, I wasn't sure I would be invested. I was wrong. It was amazing to watch the different personalities of Vianne and Isabelle find their own ways to cope and help in a war torn country. (Um...who wrote the blurb on this one? It says Vianne and Isabelle were always close? That is kind of the opposite of how it is in the story. Anyway, I digress.)

I actually wrote this review once and erased it by accident. Nothing like starting over and trying to find the right words for a book like this. I cried. A lot. Especially at the end. My kids came home to a red-eyed mom sobbing on the couch. Awkward. But this book was beautiful. I liked the setting being in German occupied France. It gave a new perspective. I don't believe this was a true story, but it doesn't mean this story wasn't true. It is still shocking to think what people went through. Ordinary people stood for good in extraordinary ways. It makes me hope that in my ordinariness, I could do hard things.

A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman - This was one of my favorite books of the year. This book touched my heart. It was funny, sad, moving and inspiring. I loved the writing. The analogies and quips were delightful, but the story itself kept it going. Despite being surly and set in his ways, Ove's history makes you understand him and his idiosyncrasies. As a reader, I loved Ove for his story, but I was impressed with the other characters like Parvaneh, who loved him before she knew the ins and outs of his life. Everyone out there has a story. Can we love them before we know it? And will we take the time to find out? 

I really enjoyed the humor in this book. I give extra points if I laugh out loud. (Or just talk out loud to myself in general while I'm reading.) I think it is an accomplishment in writing when I find myself wanting to be like both Ove and Sonja although they were quite the opposites. 

Note for kids: There is some profanity and topics that are not for younger readers.

The False Prince by Jennifer A. Nielsen - This book was really fun. I tried reading it out loud to my kids and they really enjoyed it up until the point where I misplaced the book. (That makes it much harder to read.) But after a year I found it, and eventually read the entire thing. The story was very good. I liked Sage and his impertinent comments. I'm sure in real life, he would have irked me, but you have to give him credit for his over developed sense of justice. It was a quick read that didn't disappoint at the end. Now, can the sequel hold up??

The Way of Kings by Brandon Sanderson - 4.5 This book was truly epic. I love being immersed in another world that has so many facets to it. The characters are honorable and I found myself rooting for them all. (Well, except the bad ones. Actually, even some of the bad ones.) My only complaint was that I had too much going on. It never takes me over a month to read a book. (Even a huge one like this.) There were weeks when I didn't get to read at all. But Kaladin and Shallan were always at the back of my mind. I'm glad they waited for me. Question is...can I wait to read the second book?

Dark Matter by Blake Crouch - Trippy. This book is a roller coaster for your mind. I rarely have a chance to read a book in mostly one sitting, but I stayed up late to finish this one. It is hard not to analyze decisions you have made in your life while reading this and decide if you are happy with the path you have taken? And conversely, what would you do to achieve the life you missed out on? I'm really glad there is only one of me. (Supposedly.) I really enjoyed the twisty, quantum physics, improbable side to this tale. However, this is not for my teens. There is sex and a boat load of profanity. Sheesh authors, if can come up with this crazy plot, can't your characters be more creative with their exclamations? 

Ready Player One by Ernest Cline - This book was pretty awesome. I loved all the 80's references, although after reading this, I realize how much I missed during that decade. Especially on the video game side. Although I loved my Commodore 64, we didn't have other game systems and I didn't frequent arcades. I would love to see some of the old school games being played. The quest was very interesting and I was rooting for Wade the whole time. The irony is not lost on me that 'reading' is my own personal OASIS. It is another world that I enter and spend time in until I come back to my regular life. (Although my regular life is fairly fantastic, so I don't dread 'logging out'). I was only a little disappointed that there were no references to Princess Bride?? Regardless, this was a fun, fun book. Too much language (and a couple questionable topics) to recommend to kids.

The Shack by William Paul Young - I love a book that can delve into religious concepts and make you feel like you have learned something and come closer to God at the same time. This book was very touching. It was easy to relate to Mack and the suffering he was going through. I loved the conversations about good and evil and judgment. I would definitely reread this one. For now, I'm off to see the movie. (Oh sad...I never did see the movie.)

The One in a Million Boy by Monica Wood - 4.5 stars. This book was beautiful. I loved all the characters and their journey to letting themselves be loved. The descriptions in the book were stunning. I kept rereading lines wishing I could think to phrase things in quite that way. The smattering of Guinness World Records was very interesting and a fun focus in the book. The only thing I didn't like was the profanity. There was more than I expected for this type of book. What is a wonderful book that I would like to have my kids read is suddenly off the list for language. Pity.

Winter by Marissa Meyer - It took me much too long to finish this series, what with other books I had to read, but there was no way I wasn't going to find out what happened to all these characters I have grown to love. Perhaps the end wrapped up too nicely for some, but I like my fairy tales to have a happy ending. This one was pretty darn close to perfection. I'm still so impressed with the fairy tales entwined in this series and to combine so many into one larger story. Awesomeness. I am not sure I would recommend this series to younger readers. I am surprised at the amount of gore, particularly blood poured into the writing, but it lends to strong visualization. Such a great series!











What a great year of reading. There are too many good books out there. My list of things TO READ is always overflowing. I still belong to three book groups, so sometimes I sigh as my kids read an interesting looking book and I have an assigned book. However, so many of my favorite books have been chosen by other people. So not too many complaints from me.

Here is the list of all the books I read last year.


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Battle of the AmpereRichard Evans
Princess of the Midnight BallJessica Day George
Daughter of the Pirate KingTricia Levenseller
SleuthAnthony Shaffer
Time Flies and Other Short PlaysDavid Ives
DeathtrapIra Levin
Dial 'M' for MurderFrederick Knott
You Know I Can't Hear You...Robert Anderson
Everything, EverythingNicola Yoon
The Night GardenerJonathan Auxier
The Dark SecretTui T. Sutherland
The NightengaleKristin Hannah
A Man Called OveFredrik Backman
The False PrinceJennifer Nielsen
The Cheshire Cheese CatCarmen Deedy
The Seventh BrideT Kingfisher
The Way of KingsBrandon Sanderson
Rise of the ElgenRichard Evans
The Prisoner of Cell 25Richard Evans
In the Coils of the SnakeClare Dunkle
Close KinClare Dunkle
Hollow KingdomClare Dunkle
Garden SpellsSarah Addison Allen
In the Heart of the SeaNathaniel Philbrick
The Hidden KingdomTui T. Sutherland
Whistling Past the GraveyardSusan Crandall
PinesBlake Crouch
The Lost HeirTui T. Sutherland
Princesses Behaving BadlyLinda Rodriguez McRobbie
Dark MatterBlake Crouch
Escape From Mr. Lemoncello's LibraryChris Grabenstein
Ready Player OneErnest Cline
Life with FatherClarence Day Jr.
The Soul of an OctopusSy Montgomery
The ShackWilliam Young
The Dragonet ProphecyTui T. Sutherland
Queen of SorceryDavid Eddings
WinterMarissa Meyer
Cakes and AleS. Somerset Maugham
Pawn of ProphecyDavid Eddings
Anna and the French KissStephanie Perkins
The One in a Million BoyMonica Wood